[AI生成]marriage is not overrated

[AI生成]marriage is overrated

　　I truly believe suitability is more important than liking because it can help us understand the right people. They are easy to have the same topics and they are easy to understand each other's feelings because they pursue the same things, such as being comfortable in the same big city. But if you pursue someone you like, it's very easy for you two to have a lot of conflicts because of lack of understanding.

　　If we love each other, we will understand each other more, even when there are conflicts between us. We will get to know about each other and support each other. We deal with conflicts, and that can make our relationships stronger. If you like someone, you will try everything to make your relationship better. That is love, and love involves sacrifice, but sacrifice is not a good way to do it all the time. You don't want to sacrifice all the time; instead, suitability will last for a very long time. You don't need to worry that you two will lack a fresh feeling and break up. But if you pursue someone you like, it's very easy for you two to feel bored because after one month, everything becomes out of date.

　　In the future, my father always misses his first love because he missed her and always feels regretful, just like now. But if we choose the one who is suitable, we will always be responsible, and the relationship will never let us regret it. You don't want to have regrets, but there are a lot of regretful things in daily life, such as missing opportunities with family in the past. You cannot pursue perfection because it's a disaster. What we need is the happiness brought by suitability.

　　It's just my Chinese teacher: she chose someone she doesn't like but is very suitable, and now they live very happily. But if you choose someone you like, maybe after you break up, he might like you very much, and then he will hurt you. Will you like killing the memory? How can you make sure that the suitable one is the right person for you now and not something you'll regret after breaking up fifty years later? You can't guarantee your future, but the truth is, in today's society, people die for emotional things rather than benefiting from them.

　　Disability means on assignment, but I think love can make you better in some sense. Because if you like someone very much, you will find their every aspect, and that makes your relationship better. Without love, it's so ordinary and lacks warmth, and eventually you will lose your passion just because you focus on material things.

　　I don't think loving someone is not a good thing. Love can make you full of happiness when you are pursuing it. Liking someone for physical attraction is superficial; if you deal with someone just because of that, you will eventually translate into a relationship full of physicality.

　　Wait, how do I pause? Am I stuck? It must be my connection. Let me say the last sentence again.

　　Thinking someone is the one you want to marry will make you feel full of love and happiness, and full of hormones if you choose it. So I agree that marriage is overrated.