During relationship, fit over chemistry.During relationship, chemistry over fit.
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According to what you say, you claim you can sacrifice your life because love needs sacrifice. However, if you always sacrifice for someone who never does anything for you, you will not be happy and will feel very painful. It's unfair, and you don't want any regrets. But there are a lot of regrettable things in daily life—you cannot pursue perfection; that is impossible. You don't believe someone will refuse wonderful love, but the truth is, many people pursue their own goals instead of true love. If Elon Musk pursued true love, he would not have made a lot of money, and the same applies to Jack Ma.
So that is why I think suitability is more important than chemistry. Suitability can give us understanding, so we don't need to worry. There are a lot of conflicts caused by lack of understanding, which can last for a very long time. We will not lack fresh things because we don't care about them. The last thing is that suitability will give us happiness, which is what we pursue—a peaceful life.
The lesson is that we should give happiness to our studies, and what we pursue is a peaceful life. That's all. Thank you.
他一点没聊完，AV是真没聊完。因为如果说是到后面的总结陈词板块，你的核心就是卡在了一个中途的位置的话，我建议啊，就是你自己就把一些其他的内容给删掉，把你想要呈现的和开篇陈词的部分，就是和开篇陈词部分注意。
According to what you say, you claim you can sacrifice your life because love needs sacrifice. However, if you always sacrifice for someone who never does anything for you, you will not be happy and will feel very painful. It's unfair, and you don't want any regrets. But there are a lot of regrettable things in daily life—you cannot pursue perfection; that is impossible. You don't believe someone will refuse wonderful love, but the truth is, many people pursue their own goals instead of true love. If Elon Musk pursued true love, he would not have made a lot of money, and the same applies to Jack Ma.
So that is why I think suitability is more important than chemistry. Suitability can give us understanding, so we don't need to worry. There are a lot of conflicts caused by lack of understanding, which can last for a very long time. We will not lack fresh things because we don't care about them. The last thing is that suitability will give us happiness, which is what we pursue—a peaceful life.
The lesson is that we should give happiness to our studies, and what we pursue is a peaceful life. That's all. Thank you.
他一点没聊完，AV是真没聊完。因为如果说是到后面的总结陈词板块，你的核心就是卡在了一个中途的位置的话，我建议啊，就是你自己就把一些其他的内容给删掉，把你想要呈现的和开篇陈词的部分，就是和开篇陈词部分注意。
以下为ai总结(感谢来自 刘圣韬 学长的精彩ai prompt！基座大模型为豆包。)
（如果是其他陈词环节）论述流程
- 反驳对方观点：指出单方面持续牺牲会导致不幸福和痛苦，且生活中存在诸多遗憾，追求完美不现实，并非所有人都将爱情置于首位（以Elon Musk和Jack Ma为例说明有人更追求个人目标）。
- 提出己方观点：认为适合（suitability）比化学反应（chemistry）更重要。
- 阐述适合的重要性：适合能带来理解，减少因缺乏理解导致的长期冲突；表示不关心新鲜感；适合能带来幸福，这是人们所追求的平静生活。
- 总结：应将幸福投入学习，追求平静生活。
- （最后部分疑似对自身总结陈词的补充说明或反思，指出未完全聊完，建议删减内容并注意与开篇陈词的衔接）
我们先试一下，如果待会儿还是卡的话，就让水姑帮我们操作一下。就是时不时卡，我觉得到时候还是真的让徐固来吧，昨晚就没卡，谁也没卡。要不然的话就是在正式的时候掉链子的话，就会影响我们的发挥。OK，共享。那我们直接开始了。
Ladies and gentlemen, today I believe suitability is more important than anything else. When you meet someone who is very suitable, it's very comfortable for you guys to talk with each other, there is no pressure, and you can find the same expectations and goals to grow together. That is why suitability can bring us understanding and last for a very long time instead of being temporary, and bring happiness to us. That is what we pursued.
我们先试一下，如果待会儿还是卡的话，就让水姑帮我们操作一下。就是时不时卡，我觉得到时候还是真的让徐固来吧，昨晚就没卡，谁也没卡。要不然的话就是在正式的时候掉链子的话，就会影响我们的发挥。OK，共享。那我们直接开始了。
Ladies and gentlemen, today I believe suitability is more important than anything else. When you meet someone who is very suitable, it's very comfortable for you guys to talk with each other, there is no pressure, and you can find the same expectations and goals to grow together. That is why suitability can bring us understanding and last for a very long time instead of being temporary, and bring happiness to us. That is what we pursued.
以下为ai总结(感谢来自 刘圣韬 学长的精彩ai prompt！基座大模型为豆包。)
（如果是其他陈词环节）论述流程
文本首先提及技术问题（卡顿、换人操作），随后进入正式论述：主张在恋爱关系中适配性（suitability）比其他因素更重要，指出与适配的人相处会感到舒适无压力，双方拥有共同期望和成长目标，认为适配性能带来理解、长久关系而非短暂体验，并最终带来幸福，这是人们所追求的。
I truly believe suitability is more important than liking because suitability can bring us understanding. The right people are easy to find the same topics to talk about and share values, and they are easy to understand each other's feelings because they pursue the same things, such as fighting in the same big city. But if you pursue someone you like, it's very easy for you two to have a lot of conflicts because of lack of understanding.
It's just a program to understand: even if we have a lot of public life, we can work on the same thing and grow into better people in the future. Because if you love someone, you will do everything for him to make your love relationship better. That is, love just needs some sacrifices to make the relationship better. But sacrifice is not a good way; you don't want to sacrifice all the time. Instead, suitability will last for a very long time, and you don't need to worry about lacking a fresh feeling that leads to breakup.
But if you pursue someone you like, it's very easy for you two to feel bored because after one month, everything is out of date. Very regretful in the future, like my mother always said: she always regrets meeting her first love. But it's always like that—if you choose someone just because of suitability, you might feel regretful in the future; but if you just choose the one you like, you will be full of happiness without any regrets.
You don't want anything regretful, but there are a lot of regretful things in the past, like family issues or missed job opportunities. You can't go back to change the past, so the purpose of choice is what we need. What we need is the happiness brought by suitability. Just like my Chinese teacher: she chose someone she didn't like, but it was very suitable. Now they are family members and live very happily.
But if you pursue someone you like, after you break up, if he still likes you extremely, he might hurt you. Things like someone doing killing, dismemorial, or humble things after getting angry. How can you guarantee the one you love is perfect in front of you? He might pretend to be perfect, but he could also do extreme things after getting fed up. How can you guarantee you won't do that after getting fed up?
But the truth is, people die for emotional things more than beneficial things in our society. To pursue an unforgettable, passionate love in your whole life that leaves no regrets—we all want to pursue that.
During relationship, fit over chemistry.
I truly believe suitability is more important than liking because suitability can bring us understanding. The right people are easy to find the same topics to talk about and share values, and they are easy to understand each other's feelings because they pursue the same things, such as fighting in the same big city. But if you pursue someone you like, it's very easy for you two to have a lot of conflicts because of lack of understanding.
It's just a program to understand: even if we have a lot of public life, we can work on the same thing and grow into better people in the future. Because if you love someone, you will do everything for him to make your love relationship better. That is, love just needs some sacrifices to make the relationship better. But sacrifice is not a good way; you don't want to sacrifice all the time. Instead, suitability will last for a very long time, and you don't need to worry about lacking a fresh feeling that leads to breakup.
But if you pursue someone you like, it's very easy for you two to feel bored because after one month, everything is out of date. Very regretful in the future, like my mother always said: she always regrets meeting her first love. But it's always like that—if you choose someone just because of suitability, you might feel regretful in the future; but if you just choose the one you like, you will be full of happiness without any regrets.
You don't want anything regretful, but there are a lot of regretful things in the past, like family issues or missed job opportunities. You can't go back to change the past, so the purpose of choice is what we need. What we need is the happiness brought by suitability. Just like my Chinese teacher: she chose someone she didn't like, but it was very suitable. Now they are family members and live very happily.
But if you pursue someone you like, after you break up, if he still likes you extremely, he might hurt you. Things like someone doing killing, dismemorial, or humble things after getting angry. How can you guarantee the one you love is perfect in front of you? He might pretend to be perfect, but he could also do extreme things after getting fed up. How can you guarantee you won't do that after getting fed up?
But the truth is, people die for emotional things more than beneficial things in our society. To pursue an unforgettable, passionate love in your whole life that leaves no regrets—we all want to pursue that.
During relationship, fit over chemistry.
以下为ai总结(感谢来自 刘圣韬 学长的精彩ai prompt！基座大模型为豆包。)
（如果是质询环节）对话流程
- 正方提出论点1：适配性带来理解（共同话题/价值观/目标→减少冲突）⊣ 反方反驳：仅因适配选择可能未来后悔，而选择喜欢的人会充满幸福且无遗憾（母亲案例）
- 正方提出论点2：适配性无需牺牲且持久，避免因新鲜感缺失导致分手→ 反方未直接反驳，转向新论点：社会中人们为情感事物（如激情爱情）牺牲更多，追求一生难忘的爱不留遗憾
- 正方提出论点3：选择喜欢的人可能导致极端伤害（分手后续风险、伪装完美）→ 反方未直接反驳，重申追求激情爱情的价值
- 正方补充论据：语文老师案例（选择适配但不喜欢的人，现生活幸福）→ 反方未回应
逻辑规则标注：
- 正方主要使用「因果论证」（适配性→理解→减少冲突/持久关系）和「例证法」（语文老师案例）
- 反方主要使用「情感诉求」（追求无遗憾的激情爱情）和「反例论证」（母亲后悔初恋案例）
- 攻防转换节点：正方提出每个论点后，反方均未直接反驳其逻辑，而是通过引入新案例或价值观主张转移讨论焦点
